Wendy Carol Miller


With heavy hearts the Miller/McCaughey families announce the passing of our beloved Wendy.  After courageously facing each setback for five years with a positive attitude she finally succumbed to colon cancer.  She truly was an inspiration to all who knew her.  She is survived by her loving husband, Ted, and their equally loving children, Lily and Aiden.  She will be forever remembered by her very caring and devoted sister, Nancy (Dan), and her parents, Lew and Janet.  So many others were unfailing beside Wendy on her journey.  From her cousin Treacy (Bill) and Dr. Safran and Dr. Taber and the caring staff at the Miriam Hospital.  Her best friends, Karen, Deb and Connie, were continuingly supportive and physically by her side.  She was oh so grateful.  Wendy was a Shea High graduate.  She did her undergraduate work at the University of Rhode Island and received her Master’s as a clinical social worker from Boston University.  She had offices in the South County area and continued her practice through her illness.  She was passionate and supportive of many social issues.  Her contagious laugh and sense of humor will be remembered by her close cousins, nieces, nephews and friends.  A memorial service will be held on TUESDAY at 12:00 noon in Congregation Beth David, 102 Kingstown Road, Narragansett.  In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to Lifespan Cancer Institute, Cancer Research Fund, 139 Point Street, Providence, RI 02903.  Shiva will be private.


  1. Kathy Garlick
    Aug 11, 2018

    Ray and I will miss so many things about Wendy, sending our love and deepest sympathy to her entire family

  2. Marilyn Greenberg
    Aug 11, 2018

    Sending my love and deepest sympathy to Lemmy, Janet, & Nancy.
    I remember Wendy as an always smiling, happy and loving child and young woman.
    I know she will be missed dearly and remembered with much love always.
    May she Rest In Peace.
    Marilyn Greenberg

  3. Arlene and Doug Mellion
    Aug 12, 2018

    Sending our condolences an deepest sympathies to the entire family.

  4. Barry and Ellen Shepard
    Aug 12, 2018

    Janet and Lew, our heartfelt sympathies for your loss of your beloved Wendy.
    I know that she will be missed by many for a long time.
    Barry and Ellen

  5. Amy Sawyer
    Aug 12, 2018

    Wend’s friendship for over 30 years has taught me the true meaning of love, compassion and generosity. She was the epitome of a woman of dignity and honor. I’m a better person having had her in my life. Peace and Love to all her loved ones ( including her beloved 4 leggeds! )

  6. deb whetsell
    Aug 12, 2018

    wendy was a dear friend, colleague, confidant and coffee companion. i will forever miss her big heartedness and great sense of humor. my deepest sympathies to all of wendy’s family

  7. Freddie and Paul Anderson
    Aug 12, 2018

    My heart goes out to you and your family at this very sad time

  8. Scott Ellman
    Aug 12, 2018

    Sending our deepest symphanies from the Ellman Family
    Our hearts go out to the entire family
    May she Rest In Peace
    Scott, Rhonda & Paris
    Sheldon & Betsy

  9. Patrick McGuirl
    Aug 12, 2018

    I had the pleasure of meeting and working with Wendy while at SKHS. She dedicated her life to helping others. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
    With sympathy,
    Patrick McGuirl

  10. Tracey Sloane Maggio
    Aug 12, 2018

    My sincere condolences for Wendy’s passing. May her memory bring you comfort and joy.

  11. Richard Miller
    Aug 12, 2018

    Deborah and I send our deepest condolences to our cousins, Lemme and Jan, on the loss of Wendy, their beloved daughter and a member of our extended family.

  12. Jessica Wolke
    Aug 12, 2018

    I am so sorry to hear of Wendy’s passing. We worked together for a while and did stayed in touch after we weren’t working together anymore. She was always kind, down to earth and had a great sense of humor. I saw Wendy, with one of her daughters (not sure which one) in Belmont’s about a year ago. We had a nice talk and some good laughs. I was shocked when I saw her obituary in the paper today. Please know that she did so much good for so many people. She will truly be missed. My condolences to her family and friends. Rest In Peace, Wendy.

  13. Steve and Anne O'Connor Jackson
    Aug 13, 2018

    Janet, Lemmy and Family, Our sympathy and warm thoughts to you on this sad day.

  14. The Gaudette Family
    Aug 13, 2018

    Our deepest, heartfelt sympathy goes out to your family. Wendy was the most loving and caring mother and woman; she touched so many lives, spread her love and joy for life, and made everyone a better person. May you all have peace at this difficult time.
    Brian, Deb, Eric & Alexa

  15. Amy Pizoli
    Aug 13, 2018

    I am so deeply sorry for the loss of such a wonderful and loving wife, mother and friend. Wendy will be dearly missed and I will never forget what a true friend and loving soul she was.

  16. The tally’s
    Aug 13, 2018

    Ted, Lily and Aiden
    You are in our thoughts as our hearts. Love you all.

  17. Judy Chick
    Aug 13, 2018

    My heartfelt condolences to her family.
    I was so sad to hear of Wendy’s passing. We worked together over the years, and she was always so warm and positive, even as she faced her illness. She touched many lives, and I will miss her.

  18. Diane and Arthur Newman
    Aug 13, 2018

    our thoughts and prayers are with you, Lem and Janet only good things in the future,

  19. Kitty
    Aug 13, 2018

    May all the qualities of Wendy remain in your hearts where she lives.
    Wendy always made the love and compassion for her family, friends and four leggeds known to all who had the pleasure of knowing her which I am honored to say… she was an inspiration to us all.

  20. Alix Moffatt
    Aug 13, 2018

    I wanted to share with friends and family the sadness that I and many others are feeling since Wendy has moved on to her next adventure. An advocate for all (except that person in “our” White House), someone who kept it real ALWAYS, an avid Pats fan, a talented crafter, a voracious reader, humor, humor, humor, a woman with the ability to empathize with almost anyone or anything (Trump aside), a kick ass partner, a beyond-amazing mom, and to me as a friend someone that I will forever be changed for having the privilege of journeying with for a period of time. I will miss you more than words can ever say and thank you momma, thank you. Love in my heart always.

  21. Lynda
    Aug 14, 2018

    I’m so sorry to hear of Wendy’s passing, my condolences to her family and friends. Praying that the legacy and memories she leaves with all of you will help ease the pain.

  22. Trudy Katz
    Aug 15, 2018

    To Janet and Lew I wish to express my deepest sympathy to you on the passing of your dear daughter Wendy. I never met Wendy but I know she brought you much happiness.
    Trudy Katz

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